Influence isn’t just about what you say, it’s about how people feel around you. Charisma, trust, and attraction all come down to subtle psychological cues. The best part? You can use them to your advantage without being fake.

Here are four science-backed ways to become instantly more magnetic:

1. Confidence is contagious - so is fear

Ever walked into a room and felt the tension? That’s because emotions, especially fear, are contagious. Studies show that people subconsciously pick up on fear through scent and body language, which can kill your charisma.

How to fix it:

• Before social events, watch something funny, laughter reduces anxiety and boosts confidence.

• Breathe deeply. Slow breathing signals to your brain (and others) that you’re in control.

• Replace negative self-talk with power phrases like “I belong here.”

Fact: People with relaxed body language are perceived as 40% more charismatic than those who appear tense.

2. The platinum rule of influence

You’ve heard of the Golden Rule, treat others how you want to be treated. But the Platinum Rule is better: Treat people how they want to be treated.

Everyone has a unique communication style based on personality. Some love directness, others need warmth. The most likable people adjust naturally.

How to fix it:

• Pay attention to how someone speaks, mirror their tone and energy.

• If they’re high-energy, match their enthusiasm. If they’re more reserved, slow down.

• Use AI tools to analyze your messages. Does your communication come across as warm, competent, or both?

Example: The most persuasive influencers blend warmth (smiles, open body language) with authority (clear, confident speech).

3. The secret power of scent

People are drawn to those who smell good, literally. Studies show that natural body scent plays a role in attraction, and specific scents (like vanilla) trigger feelings of comfort and trust.

How to fix it:

• Use a signature scent with warm, inviting notes (vanilla, sandalwood, citrus).

• Be mindful of subconscious scent signals—people often touch their nose after a handshake to process your scent.

• Clean, fresh-smelling environments make people feel more at ease in your presence.

Case Study: A study found that people in rooms with a subtle vanilla scent were rated as 20% more likable.

4. Imposter syndrome is a sign you’re growing

Feeling like a fraud? That’s a good thing! It means you’re pushing your limits. The trick isn’t to eliminate self-doubt but to shift focus. Charismatic people aren’t focused on being impressive, they’re focused on liking others.

How to fix it:

• When meeting new people, focus on what you like about them.

• Stop obsessing over how you come across, people remember how you made them feel.

• Reframe imposter syndrome: It’s not a weakness, it’s proof that you’re leveling up.

Tip: The most likable people aren’t the smartest or funniest—they’re the ones who make others feel good about themselves.

 🔥 Influencer shoutout

Chad Carlson is a professional wakesurfer and coach based in Scottsdale, AZ, with a strong presence in the watersports community. With 11.3K followers on Instagram, he showcases his skills on the waves while collaborating with top brands like Rusty Surfboards, Ossa Foil Boards, and LYF Scottsdale. His content blends high-performance wakesurfing with coaching insights, making him a go-to source for enthusiasts looking to elevate their game. Whether he’s carving up the wake or sharing training tips, Chad’s passion for the sport shines through, inspiring both beginners and seasoned riders alike.

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